Basically it's up to you whether to move on or to not to. It's your choice. A very good friend of mine once told me that sometimes you don't have to move on, just freaking live you life. He was speaking from his own experience who had been keeping his feelings for over 2 years. Wow. So yeah, I took his advice and now, I live my life happily.
So what has been keeping you from not moving on? Was that person your first true love? Was that person the only one who made you feel different? Was the person different from the rest? Was the person the one that you had never loved like you loved that person? Was the person that you thought the one for you? Was the person your first in your everything? Trust me we all say that because we all are in denial. We could not believe that one person had truly left us in unbearable pain. I know how it feels. Trust me, I know. We all use the same old reasons over and over to not to move on. Yes, I'm using the reasons as well. I kept telling everyone he was the one that made me felt different, he was the one who truly saw me, blabliblublabliblu. Yeah yeah yeah I get it. Yeah that's why you can't move on because you think too much and being so emotional with this kind of stuffs. I gotta agree on that, yes, I am very emotional and sometimes I can't control my emotions. It ain't good, it ain't good. But we all know that we gotta move on with our life. Great things ahead!
NVM people, we just gotta live our life and insyaALLAH (If God wills), we will get someone a lot better than our ex. Great things come to those who wait and work for it. :)
you know that cliche line "time heals everything"? it's true. so yea, live your life, and by the time you know it, you've forgotten almost everything.
ReplyDeletetrust me, been there =)
Ergh it has been 6 months and I'm still in this state. How long will it takes? Ergh. 6 months of relationship that takes more than 6 months to move on. Hurm
ReplyDeletei've been there too. and i believe that it's sucks. gotta move on, anyhow :)
ReplyDeletemy dear, there are something more important than love, like ur life, ur family and ur friends! just focus more them then you will eventually walk out of the shadows! be strong =)
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